Saturday, June 7, 2008
Photos: Making Angku Kuih
High Tea
High Tea
Today Lydia experienced her first high tea, a well-known British tradition this afternoon with us, the Chew family, and Peng Liew. Years ago, SiowFong, MayLee, and Ma Wee were introduced to the concept in Malaysia, a former British colony.
The United Kingdom Tea Council describes high tea this way on its website. “Anna, 7th Duchess of Bedford, is reputed to have originated the idea of afternoon tea in the early 1800s. She conceived the idea of having tea around four or five in the afternoon to ward off the hunger pangs between lunch and dinner. Some time earlier, the Earl of Sandwich had the idea of putting a filling between two slices of bread. These habits soon became a good reason for social gatherings, and started a trend that is still very much a part of British life. . .
For the working and farming communities, afternoon tea became high tea. As the main meal of the day, high tea was a cross between the delicate afternoon meal enjoyed in the ladies' drawing rooms and the dinner enjoyed in houses of the gentry at seven or eight in the evening. With the meats, bread and cakes served at high tea, hot tea was taken.” (Source: http://www.tea.co.uk/index.php?pgId=56)
For today’s event, MayLee baked an orange cake as well as a red bean cake yesterday afternoon. Two days ago, MayLee had started preparations for both of those cakes by boiling the oranges and red beans for two hours in separate crock pots. Yesterday meant another thirty minutes of preparation followed by baking each cake in the oven for an hour. Early this morning MayLee was back in the kitchen after breakfast. For three hours, MayLee continued making entrees for high tea, including Kuih Kochi and Angku Kuih. Kuih Kochi is a steamed cake wrapped with a banana leaf whose dough consists of glutinous rice flour, salt, oil, and coconut milk and whose filling is made of coconut sugar, water, grated coconut, and pandan leaves. Angku Kuih, which literally means “turtle cake” because of the turtle-shaped mold of the individual cakes, has a dough that consists of glutinous rice flour, coconut milk, sweet potato, oil, and sugar, and its filling is made up of Baker’s sugar, pandan leaves, and boiled sweet potato water. The other entrees that rounded out the high tea menu were fruit cocktail (longan and lychee) and two teas, Shanghai tea and Genmai-cha (green tea with brown rice).
Photos: Whizz Kids, April 2008
Photos: Whizz Kids, December 2007
Lydia and her friends are placing their hands in a blue plastic bin.
Gospel Alphabet, Part 1 of 2
Gospel Alphabet, Part 1 of 2
Lydia has memorized the “A B C “ song, and she has mastered recognizing the capital letters of the alphabet. She can also identify many of the lower case letters of the alphabet.
Speaking of alphabets, a few years ago, SiowFong and I received a devotional bookmark from Samaritan’s Purse, a Christian relief, development, and evangelism organization working in more than 100 countries around the world, that was entitled “The Gospel Alphabet”, a compilation of some key verses from the Bible. As parents, SiowFong and I have the privilege and responsibility to teach these verses to Lydia, and we hope that she will memorize them.
A: ALL have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. (Romans 3:23)
B: BEHOLD! The Lamb of God [Jesus] who takes away the sin of the world! (John 1:29b)
C: COME to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. (Matthew 11:28)
D: DRAW near to God and He will draw near to you. (James 4:8a)
E: EVEN so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish. (Matthew 18:14)
F: FOR by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God. (Ephesians 2:8)
G: GOD so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. (John 3:16)
H: HIM that cometh to Me I will in no wise cast out. (John 6:37b)
I: I [Jesus] am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. (John 14:6b)
J: JESUS answered and said to them, ‘This is the work of God, that you believe in Him whom He sent.” (John 6:29)
K: KNOCK, and it will opened to you. (Matthew 7:7c)
L: LOOK to Me, and be saved, all you ends of the earth! (Isaiah 45:22a)
M: MY grace is sufficient for you. (2 Corinthians 12:9b)
Photos: Alderwood Lunch
"Double feeding" would be apropos title for this picture as auntie MayLee is preparing to feed Lydia something while Ma Wee is giving Lydia some of her soup.
Ma Wee is feeding Lydia some of her udon soup (a Japanese soup).
Note: All of these pictures were taken during lunch on June 6, 2008 in the food court at Alderwood Mall in Lynnwood, WA.
Photos: Alderwood Playground
Photo note: All images were taken without flash. Film speed was set to ISO 800, and white balance was set to fluorescent.
The Importance of Family Meals
The Importance of Family Meals
We are fortunate that we are able to eat breakfast together a number of days during the week and we gather together for dinner on six of the seven nights of the week. Both SiowFong and I fondly recall our family mealtimes during our childhood days, and we are happy that Lydia is able to experience this as well. I read an article called “The Day After Thanksgiving” written by Mark Earley, a former Congressman from Virginia and the President of Prison Fellowship, about the significance of family meals today. I liked it so much that I am including it on Lydia’s blog, and we hope that if Lydia has her own family one day, she will continue the family meal tradition.
“The Day After Thanksgiving”
November 23, 2007
Mark Earley
I hope all of you have recovered from a wonderful Thanksgiving Day feast. Yesterday millions of American families gathered around the dinner table—even if some of them had to be dragged away from a football game. They did it to give thanks and to gorge on turkey and pumpkin pie. Some people—as with my family—flew or drove hundreds of miles to be together. Thanksgiving is still important enough to us that we will make every effort to gather with our loved ones around the table.
But what about the other 364 days of the year?
Sadly, for many families, the effort of gathering for a family meal on an ordinary day is just too much, it seems. Parents have to work late. Kids have soccer practice or band practice or dance practice. Sometimes they are practicing practice. In the frantic effort to juggle schedules and make sure nobody goes hungry, it is often easier to feed the kids fast food, or everybody eats on the run.
Though we know there is something wrong with this state of affairs, we don’t always realize how serious the problem is. After all, it’s just a meal, right? That’s why Miriam Weinstein’s book, The Surprising Power of Family Meals, is so valuable.
As other authors have done, Weinstein tells us fewer and fewer families are taking the time to eat dinner together. Then she delves into the reasons why we should eat with our families, looking at various studies on the benefits of family dinners. Believe it or not, researchers have carefully studied dinnertime—from the kind of conversation that goes on around the table to the lifelong effect that regular mealtimes have on children’s eating habits.
The research indicates that many young adults with eating disorders never had a regular dinnertime when they were growing up. They literally never learned how to eat a proper meal.
Weinstein tells us that when the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse studied ways to keep kids from destructive behaviors, family dinners were “more important than church attendance, more important even than grades at school.” The Center has repeated that study several times since then, “and every year, eating supper together regularly as a family tops the list of variables that are within our control.”
You see, there is a lot more to family dinners than meets the eye. They have “the power of ritual,” giving parents and kids the chance to connect, adding a sense of security to the daily routine. They are an opportunity for parents to teach about family history and traditions, so that they give kids a sense of identity. Even dysfunctional families seem to work just a little bit better when they make time to eat together.
The point is, family meals are not just about food. As Weinstein puts it, “Supper is about nourishment of all kinds.” That includes physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. . .
Eating together can make a big difference for us and our children when this year’s Thanksgiving dinner is just a distant memory.
(Source: http://www.breakpoint.org/listingarticle.asp?ID=7268)
Friday, June 6, 2008
Photos: Camera Girl Lydia
Lydia is composing her picture just before she clicks the shutter button. When the shutter button is pressed, the camera says "Smile!", "Awesome!", or "You look great!"
Lydia is resting with Tigger the Tiger after a serious period of photo taking.
Note: All of these pictures were taken on April 23, 2008 in the living room of our home.
Photo note: Studio lighting for these pictures included one main light and two hair lights.
Photos: Lydia and Grape Cake
Photos: Lydia and Tea Time
Photos: Monkey Bar Slide
Lydia discovers another way to hang on the slide.
With this slide, Lydia was more interested in playing with the monkey bar than she was in sliding down the slide. Fortunately for her, many of the children who were playing at the park within the last hour had departed, so she was able to spend about twenty minutes on this playground apparatus.
Lydia and the Telephone
Lydia and the Telephone
Until about a month ago, Lydia usually maintained a policy of silence with respect to speaking on the telephone. If prompted, Lydia occasionally managed to respond with a very soft “Hello” to the caller on the other end of the line. Within the last few weeks, Lydia’s telephone skills have increased somewhat.
Kristy Wee, one of her cousins who resides in Singapore and who has been visiting a friend in San Francisco for the last three weeks, is returning home tomorrow, so SiowFong called her this evening. During that call, SiowFong permitted Lydia to speak to Kristy. Below are Lydia’s soft-spoken words from tonight’s call to Kristy:
Lydia: “Hello”
Lydia: “How are you?”
Lydia: “This is Lydia Chin.”
Following that, SiowFong prompted Lydia to sing the “A B C” song and “Baaa Baaa Black Sheep”, another nursery rhyme, to Kristy, and Lydia complied with both requests. This was Lydia’s most advanced telephone interaction so far with anybody, and it will be interesting to hear what else Lydia will say on the phone to family or friends in the next few months.
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Photos: Lydia and Fridge
Photos: Lydia and Blueberry Muffin
Photos: Lydia and Grandma
Photos: Lydia, Aunty MayLee, and Ball
Home Time
Home Time
The presence of Ma Wee (Lydia’s Pour Pour or maternal grandmother) and Auntie MayLee has been great for Lydia, and her presence has delighted them as well. Ma Wee has cooked the main entrée for every dinner during this work week, so Lydia eats something new every day. In addition, Lydia sleeps in her crib during the night in her room with Ma Wee lying on the twin bed next to the crib, thus continuing the same sleeping situation that occurred last year when Ma Wee stayed with us from January through early June. The main difference this year is that while Lydia understands the Mandarin that Ma Wee speaks, Lydia does not answer in Mandarin, instead choosing to respond in English.
MayLee, who loves baking, has been baking something from scratch almost every day that she has been with us so far. On Sunday, it was Pandan cake (a special Malaysian cake). On Monday, MayLee made homemade blueberry muffins. Tuesday brought a grape cake. Tonight it was an orange cake that MayLee created for my coworkers. Lydia enjoyed the Pandan cake as well as the blueberry muffins. In addition, MayLee has been playing with Lydia, including bringing her outside the home to the yard. Finally, Lydia has relished the time that she has spent with her aunt during which MayLee has read a number of books to her.
Lydia has also brought joy to Ma Wee and MayLee. SiowFong and I have witnessed that Ma Wee and MayLee have laughed and smiled a lot during their few days with us so far in response to Lydia’s mannerisms, behavior, and words.
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Photos: Toddler of the Month, Whizz Kids
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Lydia is squatting with two of her buddies.
T_840_1211952899343_rajni081.jpgLydia the carpenter
Note: All these photos were taken on May 27, 2008 by Rajni, Lydia's teacher in the toddler class, at Whizz Kids, her day care.
"I Poop Poop in the Potty"
“I Poop Poop in the Potty”
“Only your child can tell you (not in words, but through a variety of behaviors) when he or she has attained that magical combination of ability and desire that spells readiness for toileting. . .
Like crawling, walking, and talking, toilet learning is a developmental task, which every child should be allowed to master according to his or her own timetable. The time at which toilet learning is mastered in no way correlates with intelligence or success in other areas of development. . .” (Source: Arlene Eisenberg, Heidi Murkoff, and Sandee Hathaway. What to Expect: The Toddler Years. Workman Publishing: 1996. pages 539-540)
Some milestones in a toddler’s life are watershed events, and one of these memorable occasions is using the potty successfully for the first time, something that Lydia accomplished this morning.
For months SiowFong and I have been encouraging Lydia to inform us before she goes poop poop so that we can bring her to her potty or the toilet. In addition, we have read Alona Frankel’s book, Once Upon a Potty, to her many times during that time period. Despite our efforts, Lydia first defecates in her diaper initially and then communicates to us that she has done so.
Today, however, was different. Around 9:30 AM, Lydia indicated to us that she had done her poop poop, but when I checked her, her diaper was clean. Then SiowFong and Pour Pour (Ma Wee) encouraged her to sit on her potty while they were sitting next to her. For the next fifteen minutes, nothing happened as Lydia quietly sat. Just before SiowFong and Ma Wee were about to take Lydia off the potty, Lydia did her poop poop. Ma Wee, SiowFong, Auntie MayLee, and I congratulated Lydia for her landmark achievement. Lydia smiled and laughed as she said, “I poop poop in the potty.”
Photos: Shopping at 99 Ranch Market
Toddler of the Month
Toddler of the Month
Rajni, Lydia’s teacher in her toddler class, created a new award this month at her day care that is entitled Toddler of the Month. When SiowFong picked up Lydia from day care this afternoon, she learned from Rajni that Lydia is the first child to be honored as the Toddler of the Month. Rajni then explained to SiowFong the three principal reasons why Lydia was selected for this award. First, Lydia eagerly participates in all the indoor and outdoor activities. Second, Lydia willingly eats and finishes her lunch. Third, Lydia consistently obeys Rajni and Christine, Rajni’s assistant.
SiowFong beamed when she learned about Lydia’s award, and she kissed, hugged, and praised Lydia for being a good girl in school. After SiowFong brought Lydia home tonight and announced the news to Pour Pour and Auntie MayLee, they also were delighted. Later, when I returned home and SiowFong informed me about Lydia’s award, I wrapped Lydia up in my arms, kissed her, and thanked her for her obedience and good behavior in school. Today was yet another reminder of Jesus’ goodness to us and our families for bringing Lydia into our lives – not only to bless us but also to bless others.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Photos: Grandma Wee Arrived !!!
Photos: Airport Colorful Wall
Reunited with Pour Pour and Auntie MayLee
Reunited with Pour Pour and Auntie MayLee
It is hard to believe that nearly a year has passed since Lydia last saw Pour Pour (SiowFong’s mom or Ma Wee) [Pour Pour means maternal grandmother in Chinese] and Auntie MayLee (one of SiowFong’s two sisters). For the last few weeks, SiowFong and I have reinforced to Lydia that Pour Pour and Auntie MayLee would be coming to visit with us. In addition, because Lydia has seen the DVDs from our June 2007 trip to Malaysia so often during the last few weeks, she has been looking forward to see them.
We arrived at Sea-Tac airport shortly after 6:00 PM, which was about a half hour prior to the arrival of their flight. After seeing on the electronic information board that their plane had landed, we waited around the appropriate baggage claim area. At 6:40 PM, we walked to the base of the escalator where we thought we would see them. While I was standing on one side of the escalator, SiowFong and Lydia were on the other side, and since a bench was placed on the other side, Lydia was standing on the bench so that she could see the succession of passengers as they descended the escalator. At 6:50 PM, when she saw her mom and her sister at the top of the escalator, SiowFong announced, “There’s Pour Pour and Auntie MayLee!” Lydia, with a big smile on her face, rapidly and repeatedly stomped her feet in succession, which is a very reliable indicator of her excitement and joy. Within a minute or two, Pour Pour and Auntie MayLee were at the bottom of the escalator, and they were hugging us.
After retrieving their checked baggage, we went to the New Hong Kong Restaurant at the Pacific Rim Center in downtown Seattle to eat dinner before returning home. After we arrived home, Ma Wee and Auntie MayLee delivered a number of gifts to Lydia, including an assortment of clothes, a child’s sized umbrella, and some pencils. We are looking forward to being with MayLee for the next three weeks and with Ma Wee for the next four months.
Photos: Saturday Spanish Lesson
Lydia is turning the pages of her current favorite book, First Virtues for Toddlers, while Silvia observes. This book features twelve stories about attributes, including kindness, truthfulness, love, patience, forgiveness, friendship, gratitude, obedience, joy, sharing, manners, and industriousness, and each story provides concrete examples that really help toddlers to understand the key points.
Lydia has found the page for which she was looking, which brings a smile to her face. Silvia is happy because Lydia is happy.
