January 3, 2007 (Wednesday)
The First Adoption Described in the Bible
Have you ever seen the animated movie produced by Dreamworks, “The Prince of Egypt”? If you have not, the film summarizes the second book of the Bible, Exodus, and is essentially a story about Moses, one of the most prominent and renowned Jewish leaders who ever lived and the man whom God chose to lead the Israelites out of Egypt into Palestine. Below is how Exodus describes Moses’ early life:
“But the sons of Israel were fruitful and increased greatly and multiplied and became exceedingly mighty so that the land [of Egypt] was filled with them.
Now a new king [Pharoah] arose over Egypt who did not know Joseph [the Israelite who was second in command in Egypt under the reign of a past Pharoah]. And he said to his people, ‘Behold, the people of the sons of Israel are more and mightier than we…
Then Pharoah commanded all his people, saying, ‘Every [Hebrew] son who is born you are to cast into the Nile [River] and every daughter you are to keep alive.’
Now a man from the house of Levi [one of the 12 tribes of Israel] went and married a daughter of Levi. And the woman conceived and bore a son; and when she saw that he was beautiful, she hid him for three months. But when she could hid him no longer, she got him a wicker basket and covered it over with tar and pitch. Then she put the child into it, and set it among the reeds by the bank of the Nile.
And his sister stood at a distance to find out what would happen to him.
Then the daughter of Pharoah came down to bathe at the Nile, with her maidens walking alongside the Nile; and she saw the basket among the reeds and sent her maid, and she brought it to her.
When she opened it, she saw the child, and behold, the boy was crying. And she had pity on him and said, ‘This is one of the Hebrews’ children.”…he became her son. And she named him Moses, and said, ‘Because I drew him out of the water.’”
Source: Exodus 1:7-8, 22 and 2:1-6; 10b (NASB)
Wal-Mart, Trip # 3
As we needed to buy some more things for Lydia, including snacks (primarily cookies) and a toilet bowl seat for toddlers and as Bernard and Ma Wee had never visited a Wal-Mart, we returned there in the mid-morning. Because today is not a holiday (except for the Chinese government workers), Wal-Mart was much less crowded. We walked through the store without any difficulty.
The Powells
The highlight of our day was the time we spent with the Powells, Thom, Kimberly, Paige, and Dale. As residents of Dallas, Texas, Thom, an architect, and Kimberly, a real estate appraiser, celebrated their five-year wedding anniversary in the fall of 2006, and both are delighted by Paige, their three and a half year old adopted Chinese daughter who became a part of their family when she was ten months old. Accompanying them on their second trip to China is Dale, Thom’s 70-year old mother from San Diego, California who was making her first trip to China.
One of the benefits of adopting internationally, particularly from China, is meeting new friends through various places, including SiowFong’s workplace, New Hope Child and Family Agency, and the Internet. It was through the worldwide web that SiowFong met Kimberly in November 2006. (The Powells chose Chinese Children’s Adoption International (CCAI) based in Colorado when they adopted Paige, and they are working with Harrahs, an adoption agency based in Texas, for their second Chinese adoption.)
Although SiowFong has only known Kimberly for two months, it seems as if they have known each other for years. During their online conversations in the Fengcheng adoption chatroom, SiowFong discovered that Kimberly and Thom had been sponsoring Lydia for a few months through the Holt International Adoption Agency prior to Lydia being formally placed with us! With her prior experience of adopting a child from China, Kimberly also liberally shared her perspective and advice via daily emails with SiowFong over the last two months.
Afternoon Activities with the Powells
Shortly before noon, we met them at their hotel, the Gloria Plaza Hotel, in downtown Nanchang, and we ate lunch with them at very modern restaurant adjacent to the hotel. Even though this was the first time we had met them face-to-face, it seemed as if we had known them for years. Because of their friendly, approachable, and candid personalities, the conversations flowed smoothly, and two and a half hours quickly elapsed. This day is particularly special to them since they will receive their second Chinese daughter, Renee, at 4:00 PM.
After lunch, Thom, Paige, and Dale returned to their room while Bernard, Ma We, and I rested in the hotel’s lobby. Meanwhile Kimberly and SiowFong strolled to a store recommended by other members of the Fengcheng adoption chatroom called Tiffanie’s Place, a store that offers a variety of services to adoptive families who stay at the Gloria Plaza Hotel – including providing free laundry services for all adopted children at the hotel and giving adoptive families an original hardcopy of the finding ad of their child that is published in the local newspaper!
After they returned to the hotel, Kimberly showed SiowFong a special adoption scrapbook called a lifebook that highlighted Paige’s first year of life. Upon initial inspection, one could easily tell that this colorful, image-filled memory book took many hours of labor and love to produce.
Gotcha Day at Gloria Plaza Hotel
Eight families received their Chinese infants at the hotel from 4:00 PM to 5:00 PM. We stood in the hotel foyer, waiting with anticipation to see which vehicles would contain the adopted children. Spilling out of the orphanage vans and cars would be two orphanage workers for each child; one carried the child, and other brought a bundle of paperwork and a few baby supplies.
We remained at the hotel to witness and document the Powell’s receiving of Renee Qiulu Powell, a 14-month old daughter from Fengcheng who has spent nearly all of her life with a foster family. Bernard worked the Sony HDR-SR1 camcorder (a hard drive camcorder), and I used two Nikon D70s digital SLR cameras to document this auspicious, lifechanging event. Dressed in a traditional red Chinese parka shaped in the form of a sleeper to cover all of the child except for the face, Renee, with her reddened cheeks, appeared calm when she entered the hotel. To SiowFong, who had seen her official adoption pictures, Renee looked much different because of the intervening months of growth. In the hotel lobby, SiowFong also met Mr. Wu, the director of the Fengcheng orphanage who was holding Renee. All of us then followed Mr. Wu and his assistant as they went to room 1319 to deliver to the Powells their bundle of joy!
What a day!